Sometimes, finding someone who disagrees with you is more validating than finding someone who agrees.
Contradiction Bias


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Sometimes, finding someone who disagrees with you is more validating than finding someone who agrees.

Unconditional love is for your children, your partner, your pets, hell, your favorite sports team, and, yes, even yourself. It’s not for your leaders, politicians, or your misguided ideas that you are somehow superior or more deserving than any other person. Many relationships require conditions and none are served well by blind, reckless abandon.