Sometimes, finding someone who disagrees with you is more validating than finding someone who agrees.
Contradiction Bias


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Sometimes, finding someone who disagrees with you is more validating than finding someone who agrees.

I think one of the biggest issues we face is due to the fact that we’re constantly comparing ourselves to people who can afford to pay other people to handle all the stressful BS life throws at us.

Just maybe, some things should affect you.

When people tell you not to care, they are trying to absolve themselves of their own guilt. You go right ahead and keep giving a shit. Most of us are beaten down by life so much that we no longer have the energy to care. Some of us are just so ignorant that we cannot [...]

My next novel is now finished, and I am in the process of seeking representation. This can take some time. In some cases, it's more than a year before you hear anything back from agents and publishers. I wanted all of you to know what it is about and that, regardless of how these submissions [...]